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Since Dr. Robert L. Humphrey's book - VALUES FOR A NEW MILLENNIUM - edited by his personal student - Jack Hoban, was very hard to find, I had decided to dedicate some pages for allowing you to read about some of his stories and cases.


His incredible work and research that he had accomplished throughout his life will amaze you. His global cross-cultural detective work to stop cross-cultural conflicts and violence resolution are important lessons to be remembered. These are taken from the book itself.

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He is sorely missed.


The Best Human - Equality Story Ever Told

THE HUNTING TRIP - DON'T TREAD ON US

On weekends, the Americans would form parties to hunt the wild boar that were destroying many villagers' crops. As a party would arrive in a remote village, the more curious peasants would crowd up behind the truck carrying the American hunters.

The sight of those peasants in the poorer villages was often depressing. Many of the villages were only a few miles off the highways which connected the larger cities, but they were hundreds of years behind the cities in economic and cultural development. When the rains came, the mud spread like wall-to-wall carpeting in the streets throughout the villages.

As usual, on this trip, the sight of the ragged, destitute villagers drew comments from one or another American. A young airman proclaimed: "Look at them; they are like a bunch of animals. What have they got to live for? They might just as well be dead."
What can anyone say against those comments? They seemed true enough.

I sat in chagrined silence, but this day, in response to those familiar words, the old sergeant drawled out his answer between spits of tobacco juice. He said, "You better believe they got something to live for, Jack. If you doubt it, let me see you jump down there and try to kill one of them with your hunting knife. They'll fight you like no one ever heard of. I have fought beside them in heavy combat, and I don't know either, why they seem to value their lives so much. Maybe it's them women in them pantaloons, or maybe it's them dirty-faced kids; whatever it is, they seem to value their lives just as much as we do ours, even with all of our money. In fact, both in combat and in freezing prison camps, they hung in there after a lot of Americans was yelling quit."

After the grizzled sergeant spoke, all the whispering stopped on the truck; everything went silent. I still recall hearing the villagers' campfire crack in the sudden stillness of the early morning dusk; I heard the old sergeant suck and spit. I am sure my mouth dropped open. I was both embarrassed and excited. I thought to myself: Good God, he is talking about the equality of life and all of these rich Americans are buying it.

I stashed my rifle in the truck cab and lost interest in the hunt. I stayed close to the sergeant so I could talk with him during the
stakeout. Two of my questions brought forth additional deep feelings and insights.

He told (or lectured) me that while we were looking down on those peasants and insulting them, it really embarrassed him because even though the villagers didn't speak any English, they understood exactly what we were saying. They could tell from our tone, and had given him almost exact translations on previous occasions when he had stayed with them overnight. He added, "You know, when we are making fun of them, they are looking back up at us there on the truck and saying, `Laugh, you bastards in your fancy clothes, but we don't care how sweet you smell, or how rich you are, or where you come from. We value our lives and the lives of our loved ones just as much as you do yours. And if you don't give us that, you have got to go."'

I asked the sergeant how we could prove a belief in equality despite our striking differences in wealth. He answered easily: "You got to be able to jump down off the truck into the sheep manure, go over there into that village of mud huts, walk down those narrow streets, and pick the dirtiest, stinkin'est village-peasant that you meet; and as you walk past him, you got to be able to make him know, just with your eyes, that you know that he is a man who hurts like we do, and hopes like we do, and wants for his kids just like we all do. That's how you got to be able to do it. Nothin' else ain't going to work."

I didn't shoot any pork that trip; I didn't try. I sat scratching out notes with a broken pen on what the sergeant was saying. I kept thinking about his equality-of-life concept and wondering out loud if Jefferson had also sensed this hard-core, basic life-defense meaning. I persuaded our interpreter to help me interview several of the villagers. One thing was sure: the more I got the peasants to level with me, the more strongly I realized that it was their meaning. Basically, they all said independently, We are the friendliest people in the world; but no one can tread on us.

Notice emphatically that this life-value, as it was expressed by that old sergeant and those uneducated peasants, is not a selfish "me" value. The value was always stated in terms of me-and-my-loved-ones or me-and-my-group. Functionally, this means it is a self-and-species value. Some of our original American flags, that spoke appropriately for an entire colony said, Don't tread on me.

Above from pages 68 - 69
Dr. Robert L. Humphrey's
VALUES FOR A NEW MILLENNIUM

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The Wild - Boar Hunting Story

One day on a wild-boar hunting trip, far out on the Anatolian Plateau, a group of U.S. airmen started laughing about a small group of Turkish or Kurdish peasants. The latter had gathered out behind our truck in which a dozen or so of us hunters were seated up in the bed of the truck on the sideboard bench-seats. The peasants were trying to get hired as bush-beaters. They were, indeed, a motley sight in their abject destitution including a child with a huge sore on her face and flies a- pestering.

"Look at them," said one of the young Americans. ''They have nothing to live for; they might just as well be dead."

An old tobacco-chewing, Tennessee sergeant, after a huge disgusting, splattering spit, challenged the airman with words that stopped the group's mockery: "If you really think they don't value their lives as much as you do yours, let me see you take your hunting knife & try kill one. Try one of them carrying those corn knives. Or try to kill one of their children."

The embarrassed airman actually choked while trying to take back his words.

The sergeant, satisfied, explained his challenge: "I don't know either what makes 'em value their lives so much. Maybe it's them women or maybe it's them kids. But whatever it is, I seen 'em in combat & I seen 'em in the Korean prison camps. And they hung in there after a lot of Americans was yelling quit. So while we are making fun of them up here in this truck, they are looking back at us & saying, 'Laugh you bastards in your fancy clothes. But we don't care how sweet you smell or where you come from. We still value our lives & the lives of our loved ones just as much as you do yours. And if you don't give us that, you have got to go, or else someday we will put bombs in your messkits.'"

Every previously obvious Ugly American on the truck seemed to chime into agreement with him. That was the fact that shocked me.

I asked the sergeant how we could prove our respect for their equality even if we felt it.

He answered easily: "Well Mister, you have got to be able to jump down there into that sheep manure in them fancy boots, and go over there into that village of mud huts, and walk down them nary streets, and as you walk past the dirtiest, stinkinist peasant, you got to be able to look him in the face and make him know just with your eyes that you know that he is a man who hurts like we do, and hopes like we do, and wants for his kids just like we do. That's how you got to be able to do it. There ain't no other way. If we kaint do that, we lose."

Then Compared to Now. Frankly, I think the guidelines from that old sergeant's wisdom, mainly, won that Cold War for us, or at least avoided the predicted loss. Without him, I think Professor Kissinger probably had it right. We were failing completely in the installation of the preventive "fast-strike" missiles in the Mediterranean. There was serious whispering about kicking us out of several countries (as has now happened in the Philippines, Spain, and to a degree, Okinawa). Without hundreds of thousands of our ugly Americans being turned around, rapidly, to some attractiveness, much more serious sabotage against us, if not Vietnam-type insurgency, was a good bet. The situation was considerably worse than our current domestic fears of racial strife, militia street wars, and terrorism.

Above from
Ten Values - Secrets for Building Institutional and Global Harmony
http://www.lifevalues.com/ten_values_1.htm